You're on the Bert show.

In this case, it's not necessarily what you say, but how you say it, and it all has to do with being attracted to your partner.

So this comes from husband and wife duo Matt Nabby on the unplanned podcast.

And I swear every time they come up on my feed, I just know this man is about to say something

that one day his wife is going to bring up in divorce court.

But despite how he says it do they have a point

when it comes to being attracted to your partner I just find you very attractive yeah I

find you very attractive and there was a time where I did not.

Same!

Isn't that so funny how our brain can do that though?

Yes.

It's so crazy.

And that's also why you shouldn't marry someone for looks.

Bingo.

I sound like such a hypocrite because I'm saying that and I'm married to like such a hot man such a good looking man

This is a hot bald guy. I'm just saying you shouldn't marry for looks,

because they're going to look a lot different

in the grand scheme of your marriage, hopefully,

like you age together and you're going to look different.

But also, your brain can literally paint someone to look so differently

100% via their personality.

So if my husband ever said same with that kind of guista?

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