This is the Bertia.

To Summer Fling or not to Summer Fling.

That is the question.

Our intern, Evan, is for you?

Yeah, so one of my best friends from college was like kind of in a summer

fling earlier in the summer and she was talking to me a lot about it and she was

telling me about how she was getting frustrated with like the lack of effort he was

putting in and my opinion I was like well it's a summer fling and you even told him you don't want

it to be that serious so I feel like you can't get mad when it isn't that serious.

Well he's learning a valuable lesson right now just for a second here.

How old is he? He's 21. Yeah, okay so now he's learning the first time that when a woman tells you what she wants

It's just the opposite

We don't want anything serious is an invitation for you to treat us seriously.

It's obvious. It's in the words.

Right. Duh.

Okay.

Right, so it's my bad for thinking that.

But any, I told her, I feel like you can't get that mad because it isn't that serious and she in turn got mad at me so that was rough

But then my opinion that I like held held strong on was that you shouldn't really do a summer

fling because if that's your goal for you to go in and for it to not be serious and you

know you're going to just break up with the person then you shouldn't do it.

So, and she wasn't a very big fan of that.

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