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Every time she opens your phone and sees pornography, it's almost like you're beating her the death physically.

You may not have never laid her hand on her, but if you equal the pain and hurt on her heart,

those tears that she's crying at night, when she's quiet, that's when she's yelling the most,

don't learn the hard way.

That's a big reason why I wanted to come on here today to tell you guys,

I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.

Are you ready to talk to me?

My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author.

Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic,

counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests

and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor. Each of these

episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally, together. None of us are immune to the

challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud and

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