Am I Asking for Too Much? A Solo Dating Q&A
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 17 March 2026
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
In today’s solo Q&A, I’m answering your real, messy, specific dating questions. We’re talking about red flags vs. anxiety, high standards, situationships, giving too many chances, and that weird feeling when your friends don’t like him. I also get into spark vs. stability and how to stop spiraling about your timeline. If you’ve ever wondered am I self-sabotaging or am I settling, you’ll want to listen.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. I am Alana. And if this is your |
| 0:08.9 | first time listening to the podcast, welcome. I am so, so happy to have you here. I hope you |
| 0:14.3 | love this episode. We have a few different types of episodes here. Today is a solo episode. And I have a ton of |
| 0:20.5 | questions that listeners have sent in. So thank you guys for sending them in. Going to get through |
| 0:24.7 | a lot of them today. We have a wide range, everything from short to long, everything from |
| 0:28.7 | friendship to long-term relationship to single dating challenges. My favorite type of episode, |
| 0:34.9 | honestly, to really just get through all of these parts of life. |
| 0:39.2 | Thank you for leaning on me and for coming to me with these questions. |
| 0:43.6 | For anyone listening, if you have a question that you want answered on an upcoming episode |
| 0:46.6 | of the show, the first link in the show notes always. |
| 0:49.9 | And it's in my bio too. |
| 0:51.2 | There is a link from it that says to submit a question anonymously. |
| 0:56.1 | It takes you to a very simple Google form and you can always submit a question there. |
| 1:00.0 | I'm really excited to get into this if you guys are rejoining the podcast and it's your 50th time |
| 1:06.4 | listening, your fifth time listening, your 500th time listening. Thank you for being here. |
| 1:10.4 | I love that I get to do this for a living and I really only can because of you. |
| 1:14.3 | So thank you from the bottom of my heart. |
| 1:16.1 | All right? |
| 1:17.1 | I want to say before we start, I do feel like what other podcasts do you guys know or do you |
| 1:23.4 | listen to or like influencer you follow podcast hosts that you watch their stuff or listen to |
| 1:29.1 | their stuff that just like shows up is a woman first of all shows up like in her comfy clothes |
| 1:35.9 | no makeup hasn't done her hair nothing like I am the most raw form of myself I think when I do |
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