Relationship Hot Takes & Ranking the Perfect Third Date
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 16 March 2026
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
This week we’re sharing some of our relationship hot takes and debating a few modern dating questions couples don’t always agree on. We talk about things like whether it’s ever okay to look through your partner’s phone, sharing phone passwords, sharing locations, and whether having crushes on other people is normal. Then we play a blind ranking game where we rank different third date ideas without knowing what’s coming next
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| 0:00.0 | I've had two big coffees today, and I think I feel it. |
| 0:03.4 | What was your second coffee? |
| 0:56.6 | When I went to the podcast recording, she brought me a coffee. Oh, that's nice. It was very nice. She brought me coffee, and I brought her Girl Scout cookies. I went and bought another box. Can I tell you it's very underrated that I went to the dentist this morning on a Saturday? I didn't even know dentists were open on Saturdays. The tend is open. The person, that when a person came up to me, she was like, I can't believe you're here on a Saturday. Good for you. I mean, I guess it makes sense because people need to go. And it's like when I go to doctor's appointments, I'm like, thank God I can just go whenever I want. Yeah. Versus people who have actual 9 to 5s or who work in places that are open on Monday through Friday from 9 to 5. I know. We always talk about that. I feel like where it's like, I don't know how everybody else in the world. I mean, we talk about it with like marathon training where you're like, I'm going to go for a run at 2 p.m. to 3 p.m. when I have this like hour open. I could never do that at my job. |
| 0:54.9 | And a lot of people couldn't do that. |
| 0:56.7 | Where you just like make time in the middle of the day to be able to go do something. |
| 1:00.9 | That is like, yeah, when does all this other stuff fit in if not on the weekends? |
| 1:04.6 | When I was at Hinge, I lied and said I had a weekly Friday at 1 o'clock talkers appointment. |
| 1:10.7 | And I went to a workout class. |
| 1:13.5 | Are you serious? |
| 1:14.2 | Every Friday at one o'clock I went to Jabs at Bryant Park. |
| 1:16.5 | Oh my God. |
| 1:18.4 | A weekly doctor's appointment? |
| 1:20.4 | Yeah, people have therapy weekly or allergy shots weekly. |
| 1:23.3 | Oh my God. |
| 1:24.1 | I would be like the most nervous that I was going to get found out all the time. |
| 1:29.1 | I can't lie like that. |
| 1:31.8 | Here's the thing. Like it was a weekly appointment for my health. |
| 1:36.7 | Sure. |
| 1:37.6 | It was like the only class I could get into. |
| 1:40.3 | Okay. |
| 1:41.8 | No regrets. |
| 1:42.8 | Oh my God. I had no idea. It's married to such a liar. So you're using for you to lie about that. Oh my God. I can't lie either. I can never, I cannot lie for my life. Like I cannot lie to save my life. Allegedly. You know I can. Okay. Anyway, dentist sucks. |
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