Hi, this is against everyone with Connor and Beebe. Happy 2026. You know, at the beginning of most years,

I do a series of episodes on how to live this way or that way. And I was thinking about it this year,

and I thought, well, there's that how-to urge coming up again because people are looking for

new ways of being in the new year. And I often call

episodes how to and then find myself in conversations that are super in depth and go way beyond

what people might think of as a how to lesson and instruction manual. The truth is there's no set instruction for spiritual

development or even self-development. There's probably not even any real how-to manual for

financial development or whatever. I mean, having you bought books on how to be rich or how to

organize your life only to find that they didn't work,

that you still didn't make a lot of money,

and you were still really scattered,

how to work out, how to meditate, whatever.

And the reason why is because everybody's individual.

It's as simple as that.

There are some really foundational techniques that I think are

out there. For instance, if you want to form a habit, you've got to give yourself at least three

weeks to a month, forming it every single day, and then it sticks with you. I think that kind of stuff

is sound, and I think that there's real basics available if you want to do something basic. But most people want to do

things that are complex, that are difficult for them to achieve because they're ingrained

in their personalities. So even though this episode with mystic, spiritual teacher, guide, money expert, I'm not sure, so many different

titles for her Pilar Lesko is called How to Deal with Big Changes, because there's a lot of big

changes going on right now. It's not really a how-to instructional guide in the standard sense. And yet, for me,

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