What's up you guys happy Sunday and welcome back to brunch with desby

I'm your host des also known as desby and this is your new favorite podcast

Period, but at least give me your favorite Sunday podcast

You know what I mean like I don't need to be your favorite favorite but your favorite of this day of the week

There okay, we'll shake on it. I hope you guys are having a great start to your week

I cannot believe that we are into the month of December

It it doesn't seem real to me because of a few things, but the first thing is the fact that it's almost been a year ago since

We found out about Archie's birth defect about his CPAM

and for some reason

Knowing that that's almost been a year is like frightening like thinking about just like the full round circle

Here to bring us right here to today and knowing that just even a year ago

Like I was a completely different person. We were a completely different family

My marriage was completely different like everything has just evolved and I feel like we all go through that right like

We look back at a year ago and we're like wow like worst completely different

This is completely different whenever I might be but when you really just sit and like reflect for a minute

It really hits you. You're like wow the time

The time goes by fast and it does not stop

Even undergoing the worst circumstances, you know, maybe in the past year

You've undergone a traumatic experience something that occurred like in your life or maybe you lost someone that you love or someone that you know

And sometimes I feel like it's just not fair

That time passes

Right you you go through this extreme event and you kind of just want the world to stop for a minute

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