Hi, I'm Kyra Carlin and I'm so excited that you decided to sit in with us on

BU Unapologetically Podcast. This podcast for me is the thing that created my life. I have been living

my life behind closed doors feeling like I had to show up for

everybody else. It wasn't until I decided to show up for me unapologetically that I started

living my life. I'm on a mission to help women find who they are and love themselves every

single day to show up as them. I want you to be you unapologetically.

So stay tuned for the rants, the raves, and the side notes of all the things that I have going on

in my life to help show you what's possible for you. I want you to be you unapologetically.

Hi, I'm back. Hello. How are you? I have listened back to a couple episodes and I, I decided I'm changing. I'm changing how I'm going to do it, changing what I'm going to say,

changing all the things because you know why? Because I can.

And you can too, right? You can change how you show up in your relationship. You can change how you show up

in your life. You can change how I show up in your goals, in your job, whether you are an entrepreneur,

whether you work a full-time job, whether you have a side hustle, whether you're a mom, whether you're a stepmom, whether you're a wife, whether you're a sister,

you're a neighbor, anything, whatever it is, you have the ability to change it. So here is the thing

that's been on my mind probably like more more really recently than anything and this

past weekend it was really like firing me up of how many times we will sit and complain about what we

don't like about our life or our situation or how things aren't working for us or how it's easier for so-and-so.

So we'll go right into comparison mode and we will think about all the reasons why we are not

successful and then we'll place the blame game.

Instead of pointing your fingers back at yourself and having a little bit of a gut check,

you are where you are because of the choices and the actions

that you made. So if you are going to choose to eat Chick-fil-A and Taco Bell and all of the

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