Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

You know how sometimes you hear something and it doesn't land at all super slippery.

It's like you have RainX on. You know what RainX is? It's a stuff have RainX on.

You know what RainX is?

It's a stuff that you put on your windshield and the water just...

The water doesn't stick at all, it's just like oil.

It just comes right off. And a lot of times

you hear something, it just feels like you have rain axon. And then sometimes you hear the

exact same thing and for some reason it just lands and

knocks you over and so today I heard something and I've heard different versions of

this of course and it just

fucking hit me it landed and I think it's because I needed to hear it it was you don't experience life.

You experience what you focus on in life.

And the last couple of weeks I've been focusing on the phone not ringing.

I'm waiting for a few things, some projects and I've just been

hanging by the phone you know and it reminds me of how I used to be, because I used to just focus on what was lacking.

I used to focus on what wasn't happening, who didn't like me, the deal that I didn't close, you know, how far I have to go.

And so that was my life.

My life was basically because I only focused on

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