A Real Couples Session: Did We Move In & Get Married Too Quickly?

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2024

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, John talks with Keila and Joe about their relationship history, communication issues, and recent conflicts. They also talk about the baggage from past relationships, the challenges of feeling safe and secure, external stressors, different social lives, and the pressure to be everything for each other. They also discuss the impact of living together and the pressure of time and fertility. John ends this episode with a little behind the scenes commentary on the reality of recording the real couples sessions episodes.

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago
0:05.6	and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.
0:10.4	I believe in casual or pinnacle with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose
0:16.7	because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.
0:21.5	Welcome.
0:22.3	Hello. So can we start with a little background on you guys this relationship like how long you guys have been together what's been been easy? What's been tough? That kind of stuff?
0:34.0	Sure. Well, to start with also, we we read your book last year, the one that you wrote with with your partner Vanessa and we found that really helpful for our relationship so that's kind of what made us excited about talking to you today.
0:54.2	But if you want to tell them more about how we met and everything.
0:58.6	We met, we believe we met at a friend's like house party.
1:04.7	We don't 100% remember where we met.
1:08.2	Yeah.
1:09.2	And but we've been sort of like social friends.
1:16.2	He directed the music video in 2019
1:18.6	that I was acting in and that's when we started
1:20.6	into friends.
1:21.3	We were dating other people. There was nothing happening, just
1:24.4	friendship. Then we were both single and last year he stepped up to play nurse after I had a foot surgery and my nurse.
1:37.0	And taking care of your foot is what did it. I don't know. Yeah, okay.
1:45.2	Cool. Now we're getting married next month. Wow. Okay, wait, uh, wait, you guys met how long ago?
1:51.6	2017.
1:54.0	Okay, so you guys were together.
1:56.0	But we didn't get together
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