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Modern Wisdom

A Masterclass in Changing Your Limiting Beliefs - Nir Eyal - #1074

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.65.9K Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2026

⏱️ 88 minutes

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Summary

Nir Eyal is an author, behavioural design expert, and investor. What does it mean to truly hold a belief you endorse? Maybe some of what we believe isn’t true. But more interesting is how beliefs are formed, and how they can be reshaped. So how do you update your beliefs in a way that actually serves you, rather than holds you back? Expect to learn why beliefs are so important and why they are just tools not truths, what’s wrong with the traditional view of behaviour change and motivation, why smart, disciplined people still quit when their beliefs weaken, how big of a problem limiting beliefs are, how to reframe rejection and failure, why rumination feels productive when it’s actually destructive, how to audit your beliefs and much more… Timestamps: (0:00) Why Belief Shapes Everything You Do (7:43) Are Spirituals Beliefs Weaker Than Religious Beliefs? (11:32) The Power of Choosing What You Believe (16:34) Why You Shouldn’t Treat Beliefs as Fact (20:17) Can Belief Be Engineered? (28:58) Rumination: Helpful or Harmful? (30:57) How to Rebuild Belief After Failure (38:28) Can You Really Create Your Own Luck? (41:19) You’ll Always Find Negativity If You Look For It (46:24) How Beliefs Can Physically Affect Your Body (52:29) How to Break Free From Limiting Beliefs (01:03:38) The Challenge Behind Changing Health Beliefs (01:08:18) You Have More Agency Than You Think (01:13:05) Why the Brain Defaults to Helplessness (01:15:37) You Need to Believe in Your Potential (01:21:46) The Placebo Prayer Protocol (01:26:34) Where to Find Nir Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ Get the brand new Whoop 5.0 and your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Get 15% off your first order of my favourite Non-Alcoholic Brew at https://athleticbrewing.com/modernwisdom Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom New pricing since recording: Function is now just $365, plus get $25 off at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Check out Nir's new book: ⁠http://geni.us/beyondbelief Free belief change guide Nir mentioned is here: http://nirandfar.com/belief-change Bonus content and the 30-Day Belief Transformation Journal: http://nirandfar.com/beyond-belief - Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Near A.L. We'll come on the show. Thanks, Chris. Great to be back.

0:03.8

Dude, 2019, episode 104, all the way to now.

0:08.2

I'm going to take credit for all your success since then.

0:11.5

It was built. Is that okay? Was I the lucky charm?

0:14.3

It was built on a foundation of you and indestructible. That's exactly correct.

0:18.8

New one, all about belief. Why is belief so important?

0:23.6

Okay, so beliefs turns out to be the lens with which we see the world. And I had no idea how profound this research that's been coming out over the past several years has on our day-to-day lives, how beliefs shape what we see, literally shape what we see. I can show the same exact image to two different people and they will see completely different things. It's called the coffer illusion. You can look at this piece of paper and I can show you to one person based on where they grew up and their priors, their beliefs, and they'll see circles. I can show it to

0:54.5

somebody else based on where they grew up, they'll see rectangles. It's incredible. Beliefs not only

0:59.6

shape what you see, not just figure to actually shape reality that you see. They shape what you

1:04.4

feel, your internal state, and most importantly, they affect what you do. And so everything comes

1:10.2

upstream from these beliefs. And so you better get these beliefs right if they're going to run your life.

1:16.1

I think one of the challenges people have when they hear the word belief is it gets perilously close to Rondaburn, the secret manifestation. You know, you've come from a productivity background, same as me,

1:29.6

kind of hardcore, quite sterile almost in a way, very sort of frameworks, rigid structures.

1:36.9

Belief sounds very almost whimsical as a topic to get into.

1:42.2

You know, that is a great point because there is a lot of bullshit out there.

1:48.6

And so part of what I wanted to do with this research that I've done over the past six years for Beyond Believe was to really separate what works and what doesn't.

1:56.3

And a lot of it, frankly, I'll give that crowd some credit.

1:59.7

A lot of it works, but not for the reasons

2:01.5

they say it does. I hate to burst anybody's bubble, but no, nothing is, is vibrating and

2:10.3

quantum whatevering and like the universe really doesn't give a shit. It is not, you know,

2:15.3

all the the manifesting stuff. It can work kind of. And I do dive

2:21.5

into some research around how it turns out positive thinking can have a very negative effect

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