A Marriage FREE from Rejection & Fear | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 6
Established Family Podcast
Derek Palizay
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🗓️ 12 April 2026
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
Rejection speaks loudly, but it does not tell the truth.Day 6 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is focused on breaking fear and rejection at the root. These things do not just wound emotions. They distort identity, shape reactions, and whisper lies that keep spouses bound in insecurity, striving, and instability.Rejection is not your identity.Fear is not your portion.In today’s teaching, we uproot rejection at its source and return to the truth that in Christ you are chosen, accepted, and no longer defined by what pierced you.Today’s challenge will help you:— expose the lies of fear and rejection— uproot rejection at the source— confront distorted identity patterns— receive the truth of who you are in Christ— stand with greater confidence and freedomYou cannot stand well for your marriage while agreeing with what God never called you.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on, everybody? Welcome to day six. My name is Derek. As you know, this is my wife |
| 0:10.0 | Jordan. We are so glad that we're in the last two days of our sessions here because we know the |
| 0:16.0 | Lord is about to use this as a launching pad for completing a season of standing well. We like to say to |
| 0:23.6 | everybody we come across both in the established family audience at large as well as the people |
| 0:29.6 | that we privately and personally serve, that anything that we're teaching from a biblical |
| 0:35.1 | foundation is not just for crisis mode. |
| 0:37.6 | So we believe that this standing challenge is going to be a launching pad for you taking each one |
| 0:43.2 | of the days inside of the devotional and just each one of your days in general to that depth |
| 0:48.7 | of intimacy and sincerity as you pursue the heart of the Lord. |
| 0:53.1 | So we ultimately know that love comes from a good, a clear |
| 0:56.8 | conscience, pure heart and sincere faith, as Paul says it, that is made up of these things. So we believe |
| 1:04.9 | this is going to be a launching pad for that. Today we are going to be talking about standing free |
| 1:10.1 | from fear and rejection. some of you that's a |
| 1:14.8 | temptation of fear and rejection for others of you that's territorial strongholds of fear and rejection |
| 1:21.2 | because it's happened generationally or it's happened by the way that you've learned to befriend |
| 1:26.9 | the type of people who are bound by those things. |
| 1:29.1 | And it's just become nature to always kind of be Heisman with anything that's coming your way, |
| 1:35.4 | hands length of anything that would cause fear and rejection. |
| 1:39.0 | For some of you, it's a literal spirit of fear and rejection. |
| 1:43.2 | It's like tormenting. It never stops. So as always, I like to lay a |
| 1:47.4 | foundation with some sort of claim biblically. And I want to tell you that those who don't believe |
| 1:55.2 | they belong, they live from rejection. Belonging is so important. Your understanding of what you belong to, who you belong to, and where you belong, and that will shift as God gives you different mandates and missional purposes, or even relational purposes like a marriage. |
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