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🗓️ 7 June 2023
⏱️ 36 minutes
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0:00.0 | I came across a couple of different statements recently, Pam, that were fairly interesting. |
0:11.4 | I want to get your take on these. |
0:13.7 | They're all on the whole idea of just relationships, but here's the first one. |
0:19.2 | All relationships require work. |
0:21.6 | Good relationships get better with work. |
0:23.8 | Relationships need constant work just to stay the same. |
0:31.6 | Constant work just to stay the same. |
0:36.8 | You would assume that people that have bad relationships just aren't working on it at all. |
0:41.4 | Right. |
0:42.4 | Yeah. |
0:43.4 | I guess that's a component of that, but there is also a component. |
0:46.3 | This fits into the mantra, I believe, in that I got from Shnarsh, which is the issues |
0:51.8 | we face in relationships and particularly marriage, that's what we're talking about here. |
0:56.1 | The issues we face in marriage, the problem isn't what's missing, the problem is what's |
0:59.6 | present. |
1:00.6 | Is it that it's present and we just don't deal with it and we deal with the wrong thing? |
1:06.4 | We don't face it well enough. |
1:08.1 | We don't deal with it. |
1:09.1 | We try to change the person, and that's the constant kind of work just to keep it the |
1:13.1 | same because I'm spending all my energy trying to change you, and so it's constant work |
1:17.0 | because I'm not going to be able to do that. |
1:19.0 | And then the other component that this fits right along with it is the other statement. |
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