This is not another thing that you have to, like it's not another to do or another thing that you should do, but it's another thing that can actually be really fun. So like on a date night, date nights are great when you put in the effort to get dressed up because it takes you from the mindset that you're in prior and immerses you into the mindset of what you're doing

when you're there doing it. And again, the comparison that a lot of guys can get is like, go back to your high school sports team and you play differently when you're in the uniform versus when you're not. Or when you're up on the mountain skiing or snowboarding, you're going to feel different depending on the clothing that you're in. And so if you could think about it is, okay, I love my wife. I'm excited to go do what we're going to go do. How can I dress in a way

that helps me be more immersed and more present in what it is that we're doing? How can I dress in a way

that helps her be more immersed and more present in what we're doing? Like, how can we make our

appearance be part of the experience that we're having? It's just fun. And it does increase the connection

and the attraction and everything else that comes with it, too. It's not a chore. It's actually

something that's really enjoyable.

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I'm going to jump all over the place if that that works for you. Would you start, though, by just

telling the audience a little bit about your work, because I discovered you through Instagram,

and I started following you and I'm a fan of what you're creating, probably because my style

tends to run a bit more masculine. But tell everybody who you are creating your content for and the

work that you're doing. Yeah, absolutely. So I've been in the space now for a little over 14 years,

and I create stuff specifically for men because most men, especially my age, guys that are, you know,

older millennials, Gen X,

kind of grew up with this idea of it's effeminate or gay or dishonorable or whatever other

pejorative people wanted to throw at us when we were young. You're not supposed to care about your

clothing. And I work to help men understand that regardless of where you fall on any sort of a

spectrum or anything

else, like it's healthy to care about your appearance. It's visual communication. And so I teach men how to

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