94 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 2
The Place We Find Ourselves
Adam Young
4.8 • 2.5K Ratings
🗓️ 19 July 2021
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
This is part 2 of a series of episodes focused on how to interact with someone who has harmed you. Today’s episode identifies two additional attributes of wicked people—namely scapegoating and intellectual deviousness. If you confront a wicked person about their sin or failure—instead of examining their heart and feeling sorrow and guilt for how they have hurt you—a wicked person will somehow shift the blame onto your failure and your sin. This is scapegoating. Intellectual deviousness refers to the ways wicked people use words to twist truth, avoid guilt, and fill you with self-doubt.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the Place We Find Ourselves Podcast. |
| 0:03.2 | I'm Adam Young, and this is part two of a series of episodes about how to engage people |
| 0:09.6 | who have harmed you. |
| 0:11.9 | Thank you so much for listening. |
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| 0:49.9 | Okay, in the last episode, I explained that there are at least three kinds of people in |
| 0:55.9 | the world. |
| 0:57.0 | There are normal everyday centers, wicked people, and evil people. |
| 1:03.1 | And I suggested that you have to engage each of these categories of people differently. |
| 1:09.6 | The fundamental attribute that distinguishes normal centers from wicked people is that wicked |
| 1:17.0 | people refuse to suffer the experience of guilt. |
| 1:23.9 | They refuse to feel the feeling of guilt. |
| 1:28.4 | The issue is, when you say to a person, Ouch, you hurt me, does that person look at their |
| 1:34.5 | heart and say, Oh my gosh, what have I done? |
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