#93: How to Give Better Compliments

Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

Mary Jelkovsky

Body-image, Education, Relationships, Self Compassion, Society & Culture, Self Love For Women, Self Love, Self-improvement, Advice For Women, Women's Health, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Love Yourself, Self Worth, Self-love, Body Image

4.9 • 745 Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2021

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Giving compliments is the easiest way to make someone‘s day and connect. But I‘ve noticed that the types of compliments we give are often not conducive to women‘s empowerment. In this episode, you will learn... - the 5 steps to giving empowering compliments - why body-related comments are not okay - the difference between compliments and ACKNOWLEDGMENTS As Lindsay and Lexie Kite from @beauty_redefined said in their book, ”If you give looks-based comments the power to build people up, you reinforce their power to tear people down. Continuing to focus on someone‘s looks, even in positive ways, uses the same framework and logic that makes apperance-based insults so lethal.” If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast And make sure to get Mary‘s book, The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. It’s a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself. Available in stores and online, worldwide! Mentioned In This Episode... More Than a Body by Lindsay and Lexie Kite: https://amzn.to/3n7roxT

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Mary's Cup of Tea podcast.
0:08.9	I'm your host, Mary Jolkowski.
0:10.9	I'm an author, speaker, and all-around self-love advocate.
0:14.9	And this is the podcast that will inspire you to love yourself.
0:20.8	Hello, myself, lovers. Before we dive into today's podcast episode, that'll inspire you to love yourself.
0:22.4	Hello, myself lovers.
0:24.8	Before we dive into today's podcast episode,
0:29.3	I want to make sure that you are giving yourself the gift of self-love.
0:31.7	Now, if you don't know what the gift of self-love is,
0:34.7	it's a workbook that will help you build confidence,
0:36.2	recognize your worth,
0:39.4	and learn to finally love yourself. And it's now available in stores and online worldwide. Oh my goodness, I've been waiting to say that because I've
0:46.2	been working on this book for years. I poured my heart and soul into it, compiling everything that I
0:50.9	teach at my retreats and putting it into this heartfelt, relatable,
0:55.6	and actionable workbook for you. The cool thing is, this book is a combination of me sharing my
1:02.1	life story and everything that's helped me on this self-love journey, including body acceptance,
1:08.2	and it's a workbook that you can actually write in. So every single thing that I
1:13.1	share, you can put into practice right away. There are quizzes, journal prompts, self-reflection
1:18.6	exercises, self-love challenges, all of which will help you with body image, confidence,
1:25.2	self-worth, and self-love. I'm holding it right here. It's right in front of
1:29.2	me, and it's absolutely gorgeous, not toot my own horn or anything, but we've nailed the design
1:35.1	on this one. It makes such a wonderful gift, both for yourself and for your loved ones. Perhaps you
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