It is so costly to your partnership if you are exhausted, if you are not taking care of yourself,

if you're responsible for too much of the stuff, like you feeling resentful or angry at your

partner often is because you have unmet means.

I'm Amy and I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others,

but your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best self means standing firm in your

decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. We get vulnerable and real with an

honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face. Every woman listening gets the opportunity

to choose what life looks like for herself.

In this episode we are going to talk about relationships and how we prioritize them.

This is a topic that is so close to our hearts and also we understand that this is going to look

different for everyone. So we're going to bring in some examples of our friends, our own examples,

just so hopefully everyone feels spoken to. So what I thought we would start with is the idea

that what you and your partner, so we're talking about romantic partners in this episode,

so what do you and your partner need in the relationship? Is it different? And are you both

getting enough of whatever you need? I think having those conversations very plainly with your partner

is something that people aren't doing, but it could actually save you a lot of time and conflict.

If you would just have very open honest conversations with your partner, say true what do you need

right now that you don't feel like you're getting from me? And then hopefully they also ask you back

or you speak and tell them here is what I feel like I need more of because we want both people in

the partnership to feel healthy and happy and supported and I think that one way to do that

is finding clarity. Now Abby and I realize that this is going to look different for all of us

because it looks different for the two of us and it also looks different for us versus our partners.

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