9: Be True to Yourself, But Don’t Get Attached to Any Identity
The Lavendaire Lifestyle
Aileen Xu
4.8 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 19 June 2016
⏱️ 24 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
If you know me, you know that I love to play with different hair colors. Today I share my hair story and the drastic moment that made me realize that I am still me, no matter what I have or wear on the outside. Often times we depend on the things we “think” define us (i.e.: our ... Read more
The post 9: Be True to Yourself, But Don’t Get Attached to Any Identity appeared first on Lavendaire.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Ola, imagine you're in Spain, and you've just poured a refreshing Strya Galicia, |
| 0:05.6 | Cervaisa. You hear the bubbles in the glass calling out. |
| 0:08.6 | In the Penly on unbro Alithia since 1906, 100% authentic. But not all Spanish beers are what |
| 0:18.8 | they seem, a bit like me. I'm not Carlos from Acrouna. I'm Charles from Cambridge. Estreia Galicia. Spanish. Not Spanish. Hey guys, welcome back to the Lavendare Lifestyle, the podcast on Lifestat |
| 0:38.5 | Design for millennials. My name's Eileen and I'm here to guide you to become a master artist of life. |
| 0:46.0 | You can create the life that you've always imagined. |
| 0:49.3 | Life is an art. |
| 0:50.9 | Make it your masterpiece. |
| 0:53.0 | Be true to yourself, but make sure that you don't get attached to any form of identity. |
| 1:00.0 | So if you know me, you know that I love hair. I love playing with hair colors. I'm always dyeing my hair a new shade every two or three weeks. |
| 1:10.0 | So this has just been something that has been part of my personality for the past few years. |
| 1:15.3 | Even back in high school, I would buy those box hair dyes and try to dye my hair. |
| 1:21.3 | But I think those box dyes were pretty limiting because when you're dyeing black |
| 1:24.9 | hair with those cheap dyes, like nothing dramatic really happens. And so I think I really |
| 1:31.6 | dove into the real colorful world of hair about two years ago at the beginning of 2014. |
| 1:39.1 | That was the year that I decided to finally bleach my hair for the first time and after I bleached my |
| 1:45.6 | hair that like opened up a world of color for me literally because I just started |
| 1:50.4 | playing with all these different pastel and vibrant colors so my hair I just |
| 1:53.3 | playing with all these different pastel and vibrant colors. |
| 1:54.1 | So my hair has literally been all colors of the rainbow |
| 1:58.2 | from like red, pink, blue, green, purple, silver, blonde, it's just been everything. I've had my good colors and I've had |
| 2:07.4 | my bad colors. And by now I've learned what colors work better for me and it's just something that's really fun. |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Aileen Xu, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Aileen Xu and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.

