You cannot keep someone else from cheating.

There is literally nothing you can do to prevent a cheater from cheating.

Okay?

If you are with someone who doesn't have integrity, if you are with someone who's going to make

that choice, there's no amount of loving them. There's no

amount of you being sexy enough. There's no amount of the right kind of outfit you can wear,

the makeup you could do, or way you can behave that will keep them from cheating. You just can't.

Because cheating is a decision that someone makes in their own sphere.

If it had anything to do with the partner they were actually committed to, then nobody would cheat.

It is a choice that someone's going to make.

So you can't do anything that will keep him from cheating.

But you should be inside of a relationship where if you tell your partner that something makes you uncomfortable, there is no question.

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