We go to therapy to deal with all the people in our lives who will not go to therapy.

This is one of those situations.

This is the work that you have to do on yourself so that this doesn't bother you.

Because as long as it bothers you, it will continue to happen.

You didn't do anything wrong here.

I think this happens a lot of time in like romantic relationships, breakups, divorce, where

you're still in the same circles or you're interacting in the same groups.

And it's like that person is hurt and they want everybody else to think that you're the bad

guy because they want to project those things onto you so that people

aren't looking at them that's her journey that is not yours to figure out that is not yours to unpack

that is in the past you are here in this present moment all of your power is here in this present moment

and what you decide to do with your power and your energy in this present moment.

How can we make good decisions to go on from here and let her do whatever she's going to do?

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