each child kind of shakes up the marriage and each subsequent child continues to shake it up

and that it slowly will get better if you keep working at it. So Seth was like so we just have to

keep moving through it and I'm like yeah we just have to keep moving through it and he's like

he's the good person at that. He's the person that's like we just got to keep fighting and I'm like

but it's so hard and he's like we just keep moving like okay.

I'm Amy and I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others

but your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best self means standing firm in your

decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. We get vulnerable and real with an

honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face. Every woman listening gets the

opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

Today on the podcast we have Shayla of Hey Shayla. I met Shayla through Instagram and like most

people I became a very fast fan. As Shayla's blog reads I'm a new mom who questions everything

and supports every mama that makes decisions with love. I share what I'm learning along this

wild freaking ride called motherhood. So we cannot wait to dive into all the things during this

interview but we would love it if you started by introducing yourself. Hi first thank you for having

me. I'm super excited. You and I connected over talking about our birth stories and that was

amazing and it just I don't know I just loved the vibe of everything so I was excited that you

asked me to be on here. I have a one-year-old daughter she's technically 13 and a half months or

almost 14 whatever. I feel like I've finally to the year mark where I can just say that instead of

weeks or months and I have a YouTube channel and I'm on Instagram and have a blog and do all of

that stuff. Just to sort of try and share the real things that are happening because with COVID

I felt like everybody was stuck in their own little bubble and nobody had their

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