Okay, everyone, welcome to episode 83, I think it is. This episode is going to be, well, as you've

seen on the title, am I the red flag? Like, am I the drama? This is, I've had a lot of questions

from people when I talk about red flags in a relationship or red flags in a friendship, a lot of

people say, what do you do if you think that you're the one

with the red flags? So I'm going to be talking, I'm going to be giving you around 10 or 11

examples of red flags if you are the one doing the red flags. And I'm going to be giving you

little tools and tricks on what you can do to kind of stop that behavior or curb that

behavior to just be a little bit more aware.

Yes, 100% you can also use this episode to see if your partner is doing kind of the red flag thing.

So you can kind of turn it around and look at it as if you're on the receiving end.

But the difference between this episode versus my other red flag episodes is that I'm

talking to you from a perspective as someone who can actually do something about it and change it

versus someone who's on the receiving end who can't do much to change somebody else's

behaviours or actions unless that person wants to change. Okay, so that is the difference. But of course,

you can look at it from both angles in this episode.

Now, what else?

What else before we get into the episode?

I'll just, I guess I'll go into a weekly update.

So today is, oh, you guys are listening to this on the 11th.

I'm recording this just the day prior.

So super excited one day until like an actually, you know, we're kind of a lot of the restrictions in Sydney are being

lifted. And for me, yeah, okay, obviously I'm thrilled to be able to go out and have a drink

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