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New Mindset, Who Dis?

802 - Ask yourself this question to become magnetic

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Inspiration, Relationships, Mindset, Education, Society & Culture, Wellness, Self-improvement, Selfhelp, Personaldevelopment, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Motivation

4.96.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2026

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I go deep on "interpersonal synchrony" and I talk about how to truly become magnetic. My new book "The Opposite of Settling" is out now! Instagram: @case.kenny

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on

0:07.2

Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping

0:13.0

you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

0:17.9

fulfilling life. Let's go.

1:12.7

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling New Mindset Who This. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, I want to build on what I talked about in last episode. So be sure to go back and listen to that episode. In that episode, I talked about the idea of interpersonal synchrony, which I think is so, so interesting. This is the topic that you need to learn about if you want to truly be a magnetic person. And frankly, I think this is like one of

1:18.2

the most fascinating things that I've read about in psychology. And it's basically that, you know,

1:23.8

humans do not just merely communicate with each other verbally with words.

1:30.8

We synchronize with each other physiologically.

1:32.9

Interpersonal synchrony.

1:38.1

Researchers who have studied this have found that in moments of, like, genuine connection,

1:43.5

people measurably align with each other with their speech patterns, with their breathing,

1:44.4

with their posture, with their posture,

1:49.9

with their emotional state. And to the point of last episode, sometimes it's even heart rate aligns, nervous systems aligns. And I think what makes this such an interesting topic is that

1:57.5

this is the thing that can predict what people, how people rather gravitate to you or do not,

2:06.6

right? Do they trust you? Are they attracted to you? Do they bond with you? Do they cooperate with you?

2:11.0

This is the thing. People consistently describe the experience of strong synchrony, typically nowadays with language of like presence

2:20.6

and vibe and charisma and aura. But beneath that is something that's much more textured and

2:27.3

science-based. Certain people, maybe you perhaps, make it easier for other people and other

2:33.1

people's nervous system to relax around you.

2:35.5

And the result of that is magnetism. It is. This idea matters enormously because we are always,

2:44.3

whether we realize it or not, we are always making subconscious decisions about other people,

2:50.1

about whether to open up to someone or close off

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