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you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right, welcome to episode 784.

Hello, my friend.

Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset Who Dis. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, I want to talk about how to attract the right people into your life. I want to talk about this from the perspective of heart and soul, because I really do think it's a mix of the two because there is a very tangible shift that happens in life when someone stops trying to find the right relationship and instead starts to build the right life.

I wrote a book last year called The Opposite of Settling and the subtitle was basically

build a life you love,

and love will meet you there. And I think that is accurate. Obviously, I do, but I really genuinely

believe it. It's a heart and the soul and also some science about this as well. But that shift,

that shift when you stop trying to find the right relationship and

instead you just build the right life, that's not this huge dramatic shift. There's nothing,

you know, no declaration required. It's, it's much more subtle than that. It is you simply

putting your intention and your attention inward instead of outward.

And you start asking different kind of questions.

It's no longer who will love me, but it's what kind of life do I want to live?

And it's also no longer, how do I attract, you know, my partner?

How do I attract the right people?

But it's more about what is the kind of person that I'm

becoming? And I know that sounds a little bit cheesy, but that energy changes a lot of different

things. First of all, it fills your days with things that are meaningful and personal. It means

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