Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on

Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping

you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling New Mindset Who Dis. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, I want to talk about a topic that's near and dear to my heart, which is communication. And I know that sounds boring, but if you know me in real life, you know that I'm a big time, big time communicate for clarity guy I'm a big what do

you mean by that guy it's it's it's you know I've just realized that so many of our

lives problems can be solved by better communication like seriously I think this is the cheat

code in life better communication to never be subtle about what you want, to not be subtle

about what you mean, to communicate with others to ensure you have clarity on what they say

and what they mean and what they want, the words we use, how they come out of your mouth,

how you interpret the ones that come out of other people's lives, mouths. And so I've been thinking

a lot about communication lately

and not in the sense of like how to win arguments and how to influence people, but in like a

deeper way. I'm starting to realize that most of us don't like we don't have communication

problems. We have self communication problems that show up in conversation with other people.

And I think that distinction

matters. It really matters because there certainly, certainly is no shortage of advice online in

books on podcasts on what to say, how to set a boundary, how to respond when someone disrespects

you, how to stay calm, how to phrase something so it doesn't sound angry.

And certainly that advice is very helpful. Don't get me wrong. I really believe in it. But I have

noticed that you can have the perfect script, the perfect sentence, and you can still like

completely undermine it yourself if you don't believe you're allowed to say it.

...