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Tiny Leaps, Big Changes

775 - How to Choose a Therapist (feat. Heather Parady)

Tiny Leaps, Big Changes

Gregg Clunis

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.3 β€’ 920 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 7 December 2021

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we look at how to choose the right therapist for your needs.

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Heather's Quote: 

β€œ...research has shown that the biggest factor in therapy success is the therapist/client relationship. Which kinda sucks because there is NO way to know unless you try it first then. BUT I think one really important thing you can do to "weed out" what might not be a natural fit is understanding "theoretical orientation".

Most therapists...if they were well trained, and depending on their licensure requirements kind of "claim" a theoretical orientation in which they base their therapy.

Most people don't know this going into therapy that they can ask the therapist before what theory they "pull" from. It's essentially their "world view". Most therapists have an integrative approach meaning they pull from a lot of different training which is fine....but understanding what they pull from (AND that THEY KNOW which ones they pull from--again not all therapists are trained equally) I think is super important.

You may not know what "Adlerian" means but you can google it. Let me give you an example. I pulled from Adlerian and Solution Focused therapy. Which means that I was super big into childhood issues as a cause to a lot of issues...but my "solution" was way more strengths-based and focused on measurable actions/habits. If that doesn't resonate with you, I wouldn't be a good fit. I could go on but I think it's important to understand where your therapist is pulling their worldview from, and approaching solutions....to see if its a fit for you.”

Transcript

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0:00.0

In this episode we talk about how to find the right therapist.

0:09.0

Get excited because this is tiny leaves. Big Changes. My name is Greg Clunice and

0:30.1

today I want to talk about finding the right therapist.

0:34.0

I've been such a huge fan of therapy for a super long time now,

0:38.0

and it's been incredibly helpful in my life

0:40.0

with navigating some really, really challenging and difficult situations.

0:45.4

And finding the right therapist is a critical part of actually having a good experience with

0:51.7

it, having a good result from it, finding the right person that you can connect with and show up

0:57.4

with week after week for some extended period of time.

1:01.8

That's what allows it to be effective, to be helpful in your life.

1:06.5

But finding that right therapist can be challenging, especially if you've never gone through

1:11.6

therapy before and you've never experienced what it's like

1:15.2

with a good therapist.

1:17.0

Now, I've had a number of good therapists

1:19.0

in my experience thus far.

1:21.4

Back when I lived in New York City right after graduating college in 2014,

1:25.2

I got my first full-time job out of college and decided to try therapy then for the first time ever.

1:31.5

To deal with some issues that I was going through at the time that I didn't quite have the tools to be able to manage things like recognizing my emotions, recognizing anxiety, being able to clearly communicate those things and communicate

1:45.2

what I needed.

1:46.8

Those are skills that I just did not have back then.

1:49.2

It wasn't skills that I grew up learning.

1:51.0

I didn't have great role models of what that should look like.

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