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you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right, welcome to episode 759.

Hello, my friend.

Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset, Who Dis, as always. Thank you so much for listening.

Thank you for supporting me. And today I want to talk about something I think a lot about because I think we've gotten this wrong. I think all the advice is wrong. And, you know, I'm not saying I'm right and everyone else who keeps giving this advice is wrong. It's not me versus them. It's not like that.

It's just that we keep being spoon fed this weird advice. And I think it's not that helpful. I think there's a better way for all of us to rise to the occasion, a more genuine way to do this thing.

And it has to do with the idea of not caring what other people think, you know, not worrying if people are judging you.

A very, very important topic, certainly.

We have to be willing to be cringe.

We have to be willing to be a bit ridiculous, to be honest, to be vulnerable in life.

It truly is a requirement to overcome fear of judgment, fear of what will other people think. And so in that context, the usual advice that we've been fed, I see it everywhere. Literally, no offense, but I see therapists give it. I give, I see neuroscientists give it. I see coaches. I see, you know, generic quote writers on Instagram give it. Everyone says the same thing.

They all say, don't worry what people think about you because no one's actually thinking about you.

They say, Case, everyone is too consumed in their own little world to think about you. People aren't

thinking about you. That's it. They say, case, people are not thinking about you. So

do whatever you want. Be weird, case, be wild, be crazy. People are not thinking about you. I'm sure

you've heard that advice. And yeah, it's comforting. It's easy to swallow. It's very, no, no, no,

don't worry about it because no one's actually thinking about you. But there's two things here. The first is, it's not true. It's very, no, no, no, no. Don't worry about it because no one's actually thinking about you. But there's two things here.

The first is, it's not true.

It's simply not true.

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