717 - How to spot a f***boy

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Motivation, Selfhelp, Mindset, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Wellness, Relationships, Mental Health, Inspiration, Personaldevelopment, Society & Culture

4.9 • 6K Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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In this episode, I talk about a powerful mindset that protects you from people who are not right for you. I talk about creating clarity for yourself instead of waiting for someone else to give it to you. Get your listener bonus: casekenny.com/book Instagram: @case.kenny

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on
0:07.2	Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping
0:13.0	you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and
0:17.9	fulfilling life. Let's go.
0:49.4	Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right. Welcome to episode 717.
1:12.6	Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset Who Dis, as always. Thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, I have a thought. It's a very strong thought. It's something I feel very strongly about. But I want to contextualize it within an area of life that is triggering and to do so to get our attention. And so here's a mindset I have that will help protect you from people in dating, in relationships, in friendships, who aren't good for you. The fuck boys to put a label on it,
1:20.0	the people who pull a 180, the people who say one thing and do another, the people who are
1:24.7	amazing on date one and date two and date three but then start pulling back when
1:29.8	things get serious people who are not good for you people who are not right for you people who
1:35.7	are meant to confuse you how to protect yourself against them from them and to be able to spot
1:42.8	them faster and I think the key here is, and listen
1:46.4	to the whole episode because it will make sense, but the key to protect yourself from them,
1:51.1	aka to spot them and leave them behind, is to care more early on. It's to love more early on. It's to
1:58.7	try harder early on with them. Yes, with them initially, to try harder to love more early on. It's to try harder early on with them.
2:01.7	Yes, with them initially to try harder to care more early in dating.
2:07.0	And you'll see what I mean here in just a second.
2:09.2	Because the larger context of this idea and the one that makes those kinds of people I just mentioned hurt you is this whole epidemic of you should care less.
2:20.5	You should only match energy.
2:22.0	You should catch flights, not feelings.
2:23.9	Whoever cares first loses.
2:27.5	This is the rallying cry of the internet.
2:31.0	They care less and you'll get hurt less.
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