meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
I Have ADHD Podcast

71 Success Intolerance and Self-Sabotage

I Have ADHD Podcast

Kristen Carder

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2020

⏱️ 23 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

No one tells you that success actually feels TERRIBLE, but it does. I want you to be on the lookout for the discomfort that goes along with reaching goals and experiencing the good stuff so that you don’t self-sabotage and derail yourself from forward motion. ADHDers are so used to failing…how do we even handle life when we actually start succeeding??

www.ihaveadhd.com for more adult ADHD resources.  

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Welcome to the I have ADHD podcast where it's all about education, encouragement and

0:11.1

coaching for adults with ADHD. I'm your host Kristen Carter and I have ADHD. Let's chat about the frustrations, humor, and challenges of adulting, relationships, working, and achieving with this neurodevelopmental disorder.

0:27.0

I'll help you understand your unique brain, unlock your potential, and move from point A to point B.

0:34.0

Hey what's up?

0:39.0

This is Kristen Carter and you are listening to the I Have

0:42.0

ADHD Podcast episode number 71.

0:46.3

I am medicated, I am caffeinated and I am ready to roll.

0:51.5

Today we're talking about success intolerance, which is something that I believe

0:56.7

will totally blow your mind, especially if you find yourself in a cycle of making progress and then going back to your old ways.

1:05.3

This podcast is for you.

1:08.3

I feel like I have been in agony over the last nine months learning how to tolerate success.

1:16.0

I know that might sound ridiculous, but success is extremely uncomfortable and I've noticed

1:21.6

myself wanting to self-sabotage in so many ways.

1:25.0

Since I recognize it's happening, I've been able to steadily make forward progress and I'm going to teach you how to do the same.

1:36.0

One of the things that is so important to me as I cultivate a community within my focused coaching membership is that we are constantly sharing our own successes

1:47.1

and sharing one another on. In focused, success is normal and we're constantly sharing our wins and the things that

1:56.1

we're doing right so that we build our tolerance for success. That's right you're

2:02.0

going to have to learn how to tolerate success. I want you to

2:08.5

think about how used you are to failing. You are so so used to failing. You are so used to failing. I want you to think about how you've

2:17.0

identified for years as being lazy or unorganized, unproductive, a mess, always late, bad with money, for so long.

2:26.9

Your brain is 100% used to thinking that you're doing it wrong.

2:33.0

So when you start to do it right, your brain gets confused.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Kristen Carder, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Kristen Carder and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.