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On Purpose with Jay Shetty

7 Ways to Get Through Tough Days, Weeks & Months In Love & Relationships

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

iHeartPodcasts

Business, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.730.5K Ratings

🗓️ 13 August 2021

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

We often want to be recognized for what we did well and not for our mistakes. If we keep hearing the things we did wrong over and over, we tend to see them as truth and eventually keep repeating the same mistakes. This is where most relationships struggle because people often focus on the wrong, the mistake, the unsightly character instead of appreciating the good traits, the commendable actions, and the everyday effort our partners put into the relationship. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about looking past the negative aspects of your relationship and learning to pick out what can make it work.   Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 02:19 Getting through the tough days, weeks, and months in a relationship 04:39 Principle #1: Think of the person as a dear friend 08:32 Principle #2: Relationships should have non-negotiables and things you can be persuaded on 13:25 Principle #3: Don’t respond out of your own insecurity and ego 16:56 Principle #4: Don’t expect your partner to be like you in situations 18:47 Principle #5: Don’t try to change them to be you 20:46 Principle #6: Amplify who they are in bad times 22:10 Principle #7: Do an intervention on yourself Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius

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0:00.0

You actually make someone less of what you love about them by trying to make them like you.

0:06.5

Think about that, that is huge. You make someone less of them by trying to make them more like you.

0:14.8

And that destroys relationships. It's painful to watch their own relationships.

0:25.2

Hey everyone, welcome back to Onnet Purpose,

0:27.6

the No More on Health Podcast in the world thanks to each and every single one of you

0:31.9

that come back every week to listen, learn and grow. Now, I'm really, really, really, really,

0:39.6

really excited about the amazing engagement that we've had recently. I've been seeing all your

0:46.6

comments and all your reviews and each and every one of them means so much to me because I can see

0:52.7

that you're benefiting from the conversations, the solos, everything that's happening on the podcast.

0:59.7

And I wanted to read out a few of these. This one's from Alison Getson. She says, I just literally

1:06.6

want to soak up anything that Jay Shelley says. He's so inspiring. He said such a wonderful example

1:12.2

for the mindset we should strive for. This is me adding this now. I'm still working on everything.

1:17.6

I'm sharing. I'm trying my best to learn, but I appreciate the love. Thank you so much, Alison,

1:24.3

for sharing that with me. This one is from Pippa. This podcast has been life-changing. Every

1:30.1

episode I learned something new about myself after listening, whether it's something I need to fix

1:34.8

or something I'm greater. This podcast has helped me on many different levels. Jay, thank you for

1:40.2

helping me get on the right path. I love that one. I'm going to find one more today. This is from

1:46.4

Diana. Today, she says, this was the best podcast I was so impacted by Darren Prince. Thank you so

1:52.5

much for having him on the podcast. Thank you, everyone for listening and everyone who's left a

1:57.6

review. It's truly something I don't take for granted. I value it so much and I'm so grateful to

2:03.2

each and every single one of you. So today, I want to talk about something really important. And I've

2:09.6

been trying to pick things that I'm speaking to about with my friends or challenges that I know

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