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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

7 Biggest Turnoffs for Men

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Adam Lodolce, How To Find Love, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Love Strategies, Society & Culture, Relationship Advice, Why Men Pull Away, Relationships, How To Improve My Relationship

4.6645 Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the podcast, hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski dive deep into the 7 biggest turnoffs for men. The problem they address is that many women believe that turnoffs have to do with physical attributes, but the reality is that when a man is in the market for a serious relationship and looking for a high-value partner, turnoffs become emotional. Through their own personal experiences and expert insights, Adam and Gary explore the turnoffs that both men and women can rela...

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He's got that incredible profession, he's really charming, it's all that stuff.

0:03.0

And you are just all in right off the bat.

0:06.0

And so by nature, you're going to be giving a lot when he still hasn't made those investments.

0:13.0

And as humans, we value through psychology.

0:17.0

I love your thoughts on the psychological effect of this.

0:19.0

We value what it is that we

0:20.8

work for. And when we're constantly giving this unearned affection to someone who, again,

0:26.4

hasn't put in that time and energy into us, that is going to naturally repel a lot of those

0:32.1

high value guys. Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men,

0:38.7

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

0:41.3

Now, whether you're single or in dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you

0:45.2

dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology,

0:50.0

and our own personal experiences.

0:51.8

Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolche, professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy. All right, Gary, today we're going to be talking about the seven biggest turnoffs for men. Let me ask you a very important question. When you were growing

1:12.9

up as a little boy, did you think that when you were an older man, your profession would be

1:18.4

talking about turnoffs? Well, did you have to think? I was, I was going to be more of a police

1:24.8

officer. Maybe a professional baseball player, but not male turnoffs.

1:32.2

No, that was not in my future.

1:34.6

No, definitely not for me either.

1:36.3

I was thinking more like professional snowboarder.

1:38.2

That was always my goal.

1:40.1

Sadly, I was, or maybe luckily, I was not good enough.

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