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San Diego, California. This is a one extraordinary marriage show. We're being busy is overdone

Romance is fun and scheduling sex is taking the guess work out of wondering when you're gonna get some

I'm Tony Deloranzo your co-host along with my beautiful wife Elisa from coast to coast and around the world

Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex love and commitment

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 888-875-663 or send us an email to hugs at one extraordinary marriage dot com

In today's show, we're talking about the sexual tug of war that can happen with your spouse and what you can do to get on the same team

And here's what poet and author shell so we're seeing how to say about tug of war

He said I will not play at tug of war. I'd rather play at tug of war where everyone hugs instead of tugs

Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug where everyone kisses and everyone grins and everyone cuddles and everyone wins

Hmm, and I love that because while he might have been writing this poem for children and talking about peace at the applicability to marriage

Like what does it look like if we get away from tug of war and start getting into a place of hug a war and giggles and kisses and

Rolling around on the rug and that's what we're talking about in today's show that's it absolutely and you know

We start every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and hug as an actual

It's just such a powerful part for me of every show that we do because it's an opportunity for Tony and I to celebrate what you're doing in your marriage

Right with the one family where you guys are taking action and this hug comes from a post that was in the one-family Facebook group

That starts with yesterday

I was searching for podcasts on marriage to just reconnect with my wife and I came across one extraordinary marriage

When I say I fell in love with it. I mean it. I listened all day yesterday

And started up immediately when I got in the truck this morning

I was so excited when I told my wife yesterday that we listened to one and she got excited also

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