#695: How to Get People To Really Like You
The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity
Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach
4.9 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 17 March 2026
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
What makes someone instantly likable?
It's not charisma, popularity, or being the most interesting person in the room.
In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why some people naturally draw others toward them — and the simple behaviors that make people genuinely enjoy being around you.
You'll learn:
- The biggest mistake people make when trying to be likable
- The 7 habits of socially magnetic people
- Why confidence plays a huge role in connection
- Simple conversation shifts that make people instantly warmer toward you
If you want to feel more confident socially and build stronger connections, this episode will show you how.
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| 0:00.0 | Okay, so we all know someone that walks into a room and people instantly like them. |
| 0:05.7 | Like, they gravitate towards them. This person has that certain genesis quo, and it's not that |
| 0:11.6 | they're the loudest, they're not the most impressive, but there's something about them |
| 0:17.1 | that makes you feel good being around them. Like simply put, they're just likable. |
| 0:24.4 | Their likability factor is super high. And it's not correlated to how fashionable they are, |
| 0:30.1 | how they look, their body weight. You're like, why is that person just like know how to |
| 0:35.6 | draw people in? And what's so great is that it's not a personality trait. |
| 0:42.3 | It's a skill. And it's not about impressing people. It's about how people feel when you're |
| 0:48.2 | around them. And today, we're going to break down the psychology of likability and the small |
| 0:53.5 | behaviors that you can start making now to make |
| 0:55.9 | people genuinely enjoy your presence. And what's even better is that none of this requires |
| 1:02.1 | you to change who you are or to change your personality. These are just some small practices |
| 1:06.2 | that when implemented will make you, well, more likable. |
| 1:11.7 | Welcome to the Confidence Podcast, your go-to space for high-performance coaching, |
| 1:17.2 | designed for ambitious, high-achieving individuals who want more out of life. |
| 1:23.1 | You deserve the confidence that rises to meet your dreams. |
| 1:26.1 | This podcast will help you activate it fully. |
| 1:29.0 | I'm your host, Trish Blackwell. Let's get started. Hey there, it is Trish Blackwell, your |
| 1:36.2 | confidence and mindset optimization coach. And we are live here on the Confidence Podcast |
| 1:42.1 | and I am so privileged to be a voice of encouragement in |
| 1:45.7 | your life. This is episode 695, how to get people to really like you. We're talking about |
| 1:51.9 | likability factors here. And I, this is a commonly asked question that comes up in my coaching, |
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