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The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

#695: How to Get People To Really Like You

The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.6K Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2026

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

What makes someone instantly likable?

It's not charisma, popularity, or being the most interesting person in the room.

In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why some people naturally draw others toward them — and the simple behaviors that make people genuinely enjoy being around you.

You'll learn:

  • The biggest mistake people make when trying to be likable
  • The 7 habits of socially magnetic people
  • Why confidence plays a huge role in connection
  • Simple conversation shifts that make people instantly warmer toward you

If you want to feel more confident socially and build stronger connections, this episode will show you how.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Okay, so we all know someone that walks into a room and people instantly like them.

0:05.7

Like, they gravitate towards them. This person has that certain genesis quo, and it's not that

0:11.6

they're the loudest, they're not the most impressive, but there's something about them

0:17.1

that makes you feel good being around them. Like simply put, they're just likable.

0:24.4

Their likability factor is super high. And it's not correlated to how fashionable they are,

0:30.1

how they look, their body weight. You're like, why is that person just like know how to

0:35.6

draw people in? And what's so great is that it's not a personality trait.

0:42.3

It's a skill. And it's not about impressing people. It's about how people feel when you're

0:48.2

around them. And today, we're going to break down the psychology of likability and the small

0:53.5

behaviors that you can start making now to make

0:55.9

people genuinely enjoy your presence. And what's even better is that none of this requires

1:02.1

you to change who you are or to change your personality. These are just some small practices

1:06.2

that when implemented will make you, well, more likable.

1:11.7

Welcome to the Confidence Podcast, your go-to space for high-performance coaching,

1:17.2

designed for ambitious, high-achieving individuals who want more out of life.

1:23.1

You deserve the confidence that rises to meet your dreams.

1:26.1

This podcast will help you activate it fully.

1:29.0

I'm your host, Trish Blackwell. Let's get started. Hey there, it is Trish Blackwell, your

1:36.2

confidence and mindset optimization coach. And we are live here on the Confidence Podcast

1:42.1

and I am so privileged to be a voice of encouragement in

1:45.7

your life. This is episode 695, how to get people to really like you. We're talking about

1:51.9

likability factors here. And I, this is a commonly asked question that comes up in my coaching,

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