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Shameless Leadership

689: Amy Lang: Sex Talks with Tweens

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Self-improvement, How To, Business, Management, Education

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 28 September 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Amy Lang, MA has been a sexual health educator for over 25 years. With her lively, engaging and down-to-earth style she helps parents become comfortable and confident talking to their kids. Amy’s books, online solutions center and podcast, show parents they really can become their kids' go-to birds and bees source. Amy is still married to her first husband and they are getting the hang of parenting their recently launched man-child. She lives in Seattle WA.    Amy was on the show to talk about how to talk to younger kids about bodies a few years ago. This time she is back to talk about how to talk to your tweens about sex. Given that Vinnie turned 10 just a few days ago, I was in desperate need of this convo. Amy is an incredible educator who makes talking about sex one million times easier and more fun than anyone else I know.   Listen in to hear Amy share: Why sex talk nearly always falls to the mom as a result of our own conditioning and experiences around sexuality  How to get tweens to listen to you when you talk about sex and sexuality The importance of knowing how to talk about sex with your kids BEFORE you actually engage in conversation The importance of knowing your values around sex/sexuality before you talk to your kids about it How to make up or redo a conversation if you feel like you made a misstep Why we don’t need to worry about giving our kids too much information on sex and sexuality How to talk to our kids about sex in an inclusive way that honors a variety of sexual orientations Why must talk to your kids about porn - no matter what you think your kid is or is not seeing on the internet How to talk to your kids about porn in a really clear way Specific steps to take to monitor, filter and bock web exposure Links mentioned: Amy’s Book: Sex Talks with Tweens Amy’s Podcast: Just Say This Connect with Amy: birdsandbeesandkids.com Amy’s first interview on the SMA: Birds and Bees and Kids Amy on IG Amy on FB Bark Parental Control app: Bark.us Sponsor info and promo codes: Please find our sponsor information here: shamelessmom.com/sponsor/ Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at sales@adalystmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is the Shameless Mom Academy episode 689 with Amy Lang. Show notes for this episode,

0:06.7

including any links mentioned in the episode, can be found by going to shamelessmom.com and clicking

0:11.4

on episode 689. And this episode is explicit because we are going to be talking about sex talks

0:18.3

with tweens. So if you want to put in some earbuds,

0:22.4

AirPods, headphones, whatever, this is the time to do it. Welcome to the Shameless Mom Academy.

0:32.0

I'm your host, Sarah Dean. I'm here to give you and other passionate, driven, unapologetic moms, tools, resources, and a little bit of humor to help you lead more positive, powerful, and purposeful lives every damn day.

0:45.8

One of the best things about the Shameless Mom Academy is our community.

0:48.8

So be sure to join us in our free private Facebook group to connect with other shameless moms just like you. You can find us over

0:55.4

at shameless mom.com forward slash Facebook. All right, let's dive into today's episode.

1:05.7

Amy Lang has been a sexual health educator for over 25 years. With her lively, engaging,

1:11.6

and down-to-earth style, she helps parents become more comfortable and confident talking to their kids. Amy's

1:16.0

books, online resources, and podcasts show parents how they can really become their kids' go-to

1:21.9

source for the birds and the bees. Amy is still married to her first husband, and they are getting

1:26.6

the hang of parenting their

1:27.8

recently launched Manchild. And she lives here in Seattle, not so far from me. So Amy was on the show

1:34.7

a while ago, like a few years ago, talking to us about how to talk to younger kids about bodies.

1:39.8

And I will link to that in the show notes so that you can go back and listen to that episode.

1:43.6

I went and looked, and it was episode 120, which was like a lifetime ago.

1:47.5

But that was a really, really valuable conversation if you have younger children.

1:51.9

This time she's on the show to talk about talking to your tweens about sex.

1:55.6

And given that Vinnie just turned 10 a few days ago, I was rather desperately in need of

2:00.4

this conversation. Amy's an

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