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Shameless Leadership

690: How to Stop Defaulting to a Fixed Mindset

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Self-improvement, How To, Business, Management, Education

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2022

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Over the last few weeks, I have had the opportunity to speak to multiple groups on mindset. In researching and prepping for these conversations, I dug into some hard truths around our current culture. Namely, the fact that we are all enduring Collective Trauma - and no one is talking about it.   An article in Psychology Today (linked in this episode’s show notes) teaches that “Collective trauma is a response that can follow a variety of traumatic experiences. Situations that may elicit a collective trauma response may include but are not limited to: wars, natural disasters, mass shootings, terrorism, pandemics, systematic and historical oppression, recessions, and famine or severe poverty.” It goes on to say collective trauma “can change the entire fabric of a community… In fact, collective trauma can impact relationships, alter policies and governmental processes, alter the way the society functions, and even change its social norms.”  Once we acknowledge that we are experiencing this, we can see how our mindsets have shifted to match this arduous cultural moment in history. In fact, it stands to reason that we have quite possibly (and very understandably) shifted our default mindset to a fixed mindset framework, instead of a growth mindset framework. As a refresh, fixed mindset vs growth mindset is the work of the great Carol Dweck. Author of the book Mindset - which every human should read!  In this episode, I explore why you might be defaulting to fixed mindset, how it’s limiting you, and how to shift out of it in order to see more opportunities, potential & possibility in your life - instead of defaulting to seeing obstacles & roadblocks. This isn’t to say the obstacles aren’t real. Things are hard. But let’s uncover how to hold space for two truths: Things are hard.  You are resourceful and resilient and can make great things happen in your life.  Links mentioned: Psychology Today article: What is Collective Trauma? Book: Mindset by Carol Dweck Sponsor info and promo codes: Please find our sponsor information here: shamelessmom.com/sponsor/ Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at sales@adalystmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is the Shameless Mom Academy episode 690. Show notes for this episode, including any links

0:06.0

mentioned in the episode, can be found by going to shamelessmom.com and clicking on episode 690.

0:16.0

Welcome to the Shameless Mom Academy. I'm your host, Sarah Dean. I'm here to give you and other passionate,

0:22.3

driven, unapologetic moms, tools, resources, and a little bit of humor to help you lead more

0:28.0

positive, powerful, and purposeful lives every damn day. One of the best things about the

0:33.1

Shameless Mom Academy is our community. So be sure to join us in our free private Facebook group to connect

0:38.5

with other shameless moms just like you. You can find us over at shamelessom.com forward slash

0:44.1

Facebook. All right. Let's dive into today's episode. Hello, Shameless moms. Happy Monday. I hope you're well. Oh my gosh. I just have to acknowledge for a minute

0:57.6

that I just did this recording to kick off this episode, welcoming you to the 690th episode of the podcast.

1:04.5

We are getting so close to 700 episodes and also closing in on 5 million downloads. And holy cow, I just wanted to like acknowledge that that is a lot.

1:14.0

And I'm so happy to be here.

1:15.4

I'm so excited for everything that the show has been for so long.

1:19.6

And so there'll be more conversation and celebration when we get to episode 700 and

1:24.4

and download 5 million.

1:26.3

But sometimes you just catch yourself in that moment and you

1:28.5

have to acknowledge like, holy cow, this is, it's a big deal. And sometimes we don't recognize

1:32.8

until we cross a certain milestone or a certain like end point that something is big. And

1:39.8

sometimes it's really important to stop in the middle and be like, wow, look at the direction that we're going and look at where we're going to quickly or soon be and just stop and honor

1:49.5

that. So that's what I'm doing right here. Today we're going to talk about why you might be

1:55.6

defaulting to fixed mindset. So I talked earlier in the podcast, like years ago, I talked a lot about fixed

2:02.6

mindset and growth mindset and the work of Carol Dweck. So Carol Dweck, D-W-E-C-K, has a fantastic

2:09.8

book called Mindset that I think every human should read because all of us are so impacted

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