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Shameless Leadership

688: Get Great at Doing Things You’re Not Great At

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Self-improvement, How To, Business, Management, Education

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2022

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

This one is for all my friends who have spent their lives collecting A+’s and doing all the extra credit.   I know perfectionism kept me in my own way for a lot of my first 20 years of life. If I couldn't do something to an A+ level, I didn't want to do it at all. In the last 15 or so years, I've learned that the fun, power, and momentum that allow me to have the most impact in the world comes when I am intentionally imperfect. Doing things well, but "good enough" instead of sitting on them until they are absolutely 100% A++ perfect.  In my mid-twenties, I started giving myself permission to try things I hadn’t done before. This was a huge departure from never trying anything new out of fear of failure and even more fear of looking foolish.   By my mid-thirties, as I was growing businesses, I learned that trying new things, giving myself the space to be a newbie, and sitting in the discomfort of learning were actually really rewarding.   Now, in my mid-forties, I am able to have so much FUN doing things I’m not great at. This is how I was able to learn to ski at age 42, get back into triathlons at age 46, try new things in my business, allow myself to be more creative, and laugh at my imperfections #everydamnday, while riding out the massive momentum that comes with staying in imperfect action and never taking myself too seriously.   In this episode, I talk you through what I’ve learned from getting great at doing things I’m not great at, why we stop ourselves from doing things we’re not great at, and what we gain when we get great at doing things we’re not great at.   This one is for my fellow perfectionists and recovering perfectionists. I GOT YOU.    Sponsor info and promo codes: Please find our sponsor information here: shamelessmom.com/sponsor/ Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at sales@adalystmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is the Shameless Mom Academy episode 688.

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Show notes for this episode, including any links mentioned in the episode, can be found by going to

0:08.2

shamelessmom.com and clicking on episode 688.

0:16.4

Welcome to the Shameless Mom Academy.

0:18.5

I'm your host, Sarah Dean.

0:20.3

I'm here to give you and other

0:21.9

passionate, driven, unapologetic moms, tools, resources, and a little bit of humor to help you lead

0:28.0

more positive, powerful, and purposeful lives every damn day. One of the best things about the

0:33.4

Shameless Mom Academy is our community. So be sure to join us in our free private Facebook group

0:38.1

to connect with other shameless moms just like you. You can find us over at shamelessom.com

0:43.8

forward slash Facebook. All right. Let's dive into today's episode.

0:52.8

Hello, Sham shameless moms.

0:54.4

Happy Monday.

0:55.6

I'm delighted to be here.

0:57.5

I'm looking out my window and it's still sunny at the end of September, which feels like such a win.

1:02.4

We're getting ready to celebrate Vinny's 10th birthday in a couple days.

1:06.8

Holy cow.

1:08.5

So it just feels like kind of this special time for reflection. I'm also coming out

1:12.9

of this season where their holy cow has just been like every week for the last month has had

1:20.2

some major event, like major. So it was the first one was my triathlon. And then the week after that was helping

1:30.3

co-host a back-to-school barbecue for a thousand people at any school. And then the next week,

1:36.5

we opened enrollment for the academy and ran a couple workshops aligned with that project. And we also

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