#67: When You're the Friend Who Can't Get it RIght
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 30 September 2020
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Are you the friend who constantly has relationship issues and you can't get it right? Feeling some shame about it and as if you're permanently flawed? You don't have to feel that way.
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| 0:00.0 | My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there |
| 0:20.0 | is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever |
| 0:26.4 | means necessary. |
| 0:29.7 | Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and |
| 0:34.4 | resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and |
| 0:38.5 | then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow in |
| 0:45.3 | your self-worth. I'm She Nel Lache, Love Edition coach and Trauma Specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:54.0 | Hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Hill. |
| 0:58.0 | I hope that it finds you thriving and just be me with joy wherever you are and if not I hope that this |
| 1:06.6 | podcast episode is able to help you get there. So today's episode I want to talk to all of you who have ever felt like you are the |
| 1:16.9 | friend who is just persistently messed up or messing up. |
| 1:23.0 | Thanks for listening to this week's podcast. |
| 1:26.0 | Before we get started, let's take a small break to say thank you to this week's sponsors. |
| 1:31.0 | Thanks for listening to this week's podcast. Before we get |
| 1:36.9 | started, let's take a small break to say thank you to this week's sponsors. |
| 1:48.6 | This is totally the place that I was in before I started my healing journey, my recovery process because it felt like I just couldn't get things right even though I should know better |
| 1:54.8 | even though I'm supposed to have been loving myself. Everything that I was |
| 2:01.3 | trying just wasn't really working. |
| 2:03.2 | So I wanted to have an episode specifically talking to that issue because it is a commonplace |
| 2:09.8 | and many of us feel shame. Many of us feel like we're in a hole that we can never get out of and even if we do get out of it |
| 2:18.1 | We still carry this this banner on our back. It feels like we still carry this banner on our back, that tells us that we are failure, that we are messed up, that we are still broken, even if and when we are doing better. So hopefully today's episode helps |
| 2:36.4 | you with that. For those of you who do not know we are maybe a few days away |
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