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From San Diego, California, this is a one-extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone, romance is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork

out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host,

along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world,

thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 888-875-663 or send us an email to hugs at

oneextraordinarymarriage.com. On today's show, we're talking about how to cultivate

quality time between you and your spouse. And there's a quote from Dave Willis that says time

is the currency of relationships. If you want to invest in your relationships,

start by investing your time. It's what today's show is going to be all about as we talk about

quality time. But first, we start every oneextraordinary marriage show with a hug. And really,

a hug is an opportunity to give you guys a virtual high five. It's an opportunity for us to say,

you know what? Great job looking at that area of your marriage. Let's celebrate the success

that you're having. And this hug came from a Facebook direct message that starts with,

oh my Lanta, I love everything about your book called to love. I truly thought we were at our

breaking point. You reminded me of the simple task our pastor had counseled us on as Christ's

followers. Christ has instructed us to love our spouse as we love him. That's it. Nothing more.

When we love our spouses, we love Christ putting them first as we put him first, then all the

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