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The Terri Cole Show

652 10 Signs You're Self-Abandoning + What To Do Instead

The Terri Cole Show

Terri Cole

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2024

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Do you tend to lose yourself in relationships?

Are you a people pleaser who prioritizes others above yourself?

Do you look outside yourself for validation?

If you answered yes and you're tired of these relational dynamics, you're in the right place because I'm talking all about self-abandonment: what it is, why we do it, the signs, and how you can move into self-consideration instead.

Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/652

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0:00.0

Well, hello there and welcome to this episode of the Terry Cole show.

0:05.0

And I'll start with the question, do you have a tendency to lose yourself in relationships?

0:11.0

Are you a people pleaser? Do you sort of abandon yourself in

0:17.8

service of the relationship? And then eventually these relationships become

0:22.1

unsatisfying because of it.

0:24.4

It's sort of having this sense of being unknown, unseen,

0:30.0

and not even really being seen by yourself.

0:33.4

So if any of that is resonating with you, well then this episode of the Cherry

0:37.8

Cole show is for you my friend.

0:39.4

Because in this episode I'm going to be talking about

0:41.8

self-aband abandonment and losing ourselves

0:44.3

in relationships. Why we do it? What are the signs that you're going to look out for and how

0:48.6

can you stop doing it and start putting more of an emphasis on you and taking care of you and more self-consideration.

0:56.4

So, before we get into it, I just want to say thank you so much for being here.

1:01.2

You could be anywhere and it really warms my heart that you are tuning in today.

1:06.4

It really does mean the world to me. So thank you, thank you. And if you want to support the show,

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1:19.2

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1:26.0

subscribe. I also love to highlight our five-star reviews because people are so

1:31.4

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1:36.4

So I want to say thank you to Vialeta Lita for this five-ster review.

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