640: Linda Carroll | First Love Fantasies and the Myth of Closure

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🗓️ 3 August 2017

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Linda Carroll (@Lovecycleslinda), author of Love Cycles: The Five Essential Stages of Lasting Love, revisits the show to talk some sense into us about first love fantasies, knowing the difference between good and bad relationship advice, and why she considers the concept of closure a myth. "Falling in love is not about relationship compatibility." -Linda Carroll The Cheat Sheet: Breaking away from first love fantasies. Why falling out of love is not a reason to leave a relationship. Four good reasons to leave a relationship. The myth of closure. What we can do to move on from a relationship that's ended. And so much more... Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/640/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter ART OF CHARM in the How You Heard About Us section. With Business Platinum from American Express, it's not about where you are, it's about where you want to take your business next. Explore the Power of The Business Platinum Card here! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Free yourself from typing notes, reports, and documents by going with the transcriptionists we trust here at AoC: TranscriptionOutsourcing.net -- 99% or higher accuracy guaranteed! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	There was a part of you that missed red flags.
0:02.8	There was a part of you that thought you could change somebody.
0:05.4	For all of these reasons, there is a finger pointing back at you saying,
0:10.6	I gotta see how I got into this.
0:19.6	Welcome to the Art of Charm.
0:21.2	I'm Jordan Harbinger.
0:22.2	I'm here with producer Jason of Philip O.
0:24.2	On this episode, we'll be talking with our friend,
0:26.4	a regular guest of the show, Linda Carroll.
0:28.8	She is an amazing, amazing is actually an underperforming word for her.
0:33.2	She's an amazing therapist.
0:34.6	She is brilliant, has brilliant brilliant insight to issues people have
0:38.9	inside and outside of relationships.
0:40.4	She's been in the game for a long time.
0:41.6	I don't want to make her feel old so we won't say how long.
0:43.4	But today, we'll be talking about first love fantasies or love fantasies in general.
0:47.6	Why falling out of love is not a reason to leave a relationship.
0:51.4	That one surprised me and three reasons which are good reasons to leave
0:54.9	relationships and last but not least the myth of closure.
0:59.1	Why we shouldn't worry about it.
1:00.5	Why maybe it doesn't even exist in the first place.
1:03.0	And what we can do when we end relationships,
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