63: You Are Not Your Beliefs (Elizabeth Rider)
Vibrant Happy Women
Jen Riday
4.8 • 671 Ratings
🗓️ 22 May 2017
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
We all have numerous things we believe, but do we ever stop to think about where those beliefs came from and whether they serve us? In this fantastic interview with Elizabeth Rider we talk about beliefs, education, not quitting and the importance of ALLOWING things to happen with ease and flow rather than PUSHING things to happen.
Elizabeth Rider is a leading nutrition & whole living expert teaching women around the world how to become the healthiest, most successful people they know. In a world flooded with diet information, Elizabeth's healthy recipes and straight-forward nutrition advice draw millions of inspired readers to her popular blog. Thousands have had success using her online programs, which include Clean Up Your Diet™, Purpose To Profit™ and The Wellness Business Bootcamp™. As host of Elizabeth Eats on Food Matters TV, Elizabeth is delightfully changing the way the world views healthy home cooking. She speaks on stages around the world and mentors scores of ambitious people each year to seek and live life on their own terms. As a Certified Holistic Health Coach (Integrative Nutrition) and accomplished online entrepreneur, cultivating a lifestyle of freedom and health is her religion. Elizabeth is a graduate of Cornell University's Plant-Based Nutrition program, a TEDx speaker, and regular contributor to The Huffington Post. Her recipes have been featured on Shape.com, MSN, MindBodyGreen, Buzzfeed, Greatist and POPSUGAR among others.
Nuggets of Wisdom from Elizabeth:
"You are not your beliefs."
"We pick up beliefs in life as we go."
"When we believe something, we will subconsciously seek out facts to affirm our beliefs."
"For a long time, even for me, I wasn't willing to believe that we are not our beliefs, that I am not my beliefs. And when I made that turning point, It was like WOW."

"Because when we think that we are our beliefs, that'S where so much anxiety and discomfort and distress in our brains comes from."
"The thing that people don't realize is that what you accrue along the way, you can't even think of right now. You do not even know what it's going to be."
"I generally stay away from gluten and dairy. I feel like when I eat flour, it makes me feel really bloated. And when I eat dairy, it makes my skin break out."
"My life's mission is in my own personal life is to bridge that gap between really loving my food and making sure that it is serving me and not harming me."
"I really think that judgment is a mirror. And it's always a reflection of our beliefs."
"One of the biggest tragedies in life is people not who would not take action over the fear of being judged when the judgement is actually just a mirror of how they felt about themselves. You can change those beliefs."
Some of Elizabeth's Favorite Things:
Personal habit: "Not quitting. Knowing that instead of quitting you just have to find a different way."
Easy meal: "A smoothie. Red Thai Curry, easy to put together with coconut milk."
Favorite kitchen gadget: "Le Creuset Signature Enameled Cast-Iron Dutch Oven"
Elizabeth's Favorite Books: "Change Me Prayers: The Hidden Power of Spiritual Surrender Book by Tosha Silver"
Best advice received: "I can't live if I care what other people think about me."
Elizabeth's Happiness Formula:
"Freedom plus allowing plus awareness plus ease."
A Challenge from Elizabeth:
"Write down your 5 biggest beliefs in life and understand where they came from. And then go read that post on the Oatmeal: The Backfire Effect (on the Oatmeal)"
Resources
Le Creuset Signature Enameled Cast-Iron Dutch Oven
Change Me Prayers: The Hidden Power of Spiritual Surrender Book by Tosha Silver
The Backfire Effect (on the Oatmeal)
Vibrant Happy Women Facebook Group
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to the Vibrant Happy Women podcast, episode number 63. |
| 0:05.2 | We often get so wrapped up in what people are going to think about us. |
| 0:08.2 | It's such a disadvantage because, for one, most people are worried about their own lives |
| 0:11.9 | and they're not going to care. |
| 0:12.7 | They don't have enough time in their day to even judge you. |
| 0:15.4 | You know, judgment really is a reflection. |
| 0:18.0 | Judgment's always a mirror. |
| 0:19.1 | So if you think other people are judging it, it's you judging yourself. |
| 0:22.0 | I really believe that. |
| 0:24.3 | Welcome to the Vibrant Happy Women Podcast, stories of vibrant women living happy lives. |
| 0:30.8 | And now your host, Jen Ryday. |
| 0:45.3 | Welcome. Welcome back to the Vibrant Happy Women podcast. I'm Jen Ridey, women's happiness expert and mom of six. And my mission is to help you let go of overwhelm and |
| 0:51.1 | burnout and start living a vibrant and happy life. I provide support through my |
| 0:56.0 | online programs, Time Mastery for Women and the Vibrant Happy Women Academy. You can learn more at |
| 1:01.5 | genridea.com. On our last episode, I chatted with Crystal Payne, all about taking the time to rest, |
| 1:08.5 | to pour into yourself so you have something to pour into others. And I love |
| 1:13.1 | that analogy and I love all the wisdom crystal shared. Today I'll be talking with Elizabeth Ryder about a |
| 1:18.0 | number of things. But one of the things that stood out to me the most was the fact that we need to |
| 1:22.7 | allow things to come into our lives rather than pushing to make them happen, allowing things to happen |
| 1:28.4 | with ease and flow. Also, she talked about that we are not our beliefs, that we can analyze our |
| 1:34.9 | beliefs and recognize where they came from and then decide to keep those beliefs that actually |
| 1:39.8 | serve us. So Elizabeth shared so many great things and you're going to love this episode. So let's go |
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