619: This is What's Holding 99% of People Back From Healthy Relationships With Adeyemi Adeyosoye
Highest Self Podcast®
Sahara Rose
4.8 • 6K Ratings
🗓️ 10 September 2025
⏱️ 73 minutes
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Summary
This week we're exploring the dark masculine a side of the masculine that most of us have never been shown, yet is essential for true intimacy, polarity, and healing.
I sat down with Adeyemi, a men's coach and wisdom-keeper, whose journey has taken him from Nigeria to Germany, through deep struggles, plant medicine work, and ultimately into his mission of helping men reclaim their power. In our conversation, we opened up about shame, sexuality, and what it really takes for men to hold both their light and their shadow without rejecting any part of themselves.
Together, we explored:
💔 why shame is the lowest vibration and how men can release it
👥 why women can hold space, but men also need other men for their deepest healing
🌗 what the "dark masculine" really means (and why it's not something to fear)
🔥 how to maintain polarity in relationships without falling into the "mother/teacher" role
🌹 the path to deeper intimacy, ravishment, and authentic connection
This conversation is raw, real, and an invitation to embrace all of who you are… light, dark, and everything in between.
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| 0:00.0 | A man can tap into his dark energy and his ability to ravish a woman by letting go of all construct |
| 0:06.4 | of who he needs to be in the sexual engagement. He needs to trust his intuition in the moment |
| 0:10.7 | and ask himself the question, how do I want to experience and feel this woman and trust that fully? |
| 0:16.1 | The pull into the woman is a lot more magnetic because you're trusting your body and asking the |
| 0:20.6 | question, |
| 0:21.2 | how do I want to feel this woman? Let go of performance. You cannot ravish a woman when you're performing. |
| 0:25.9 | You are in your needs. So I feel the biggest spiritual concepts and make them modern, grounded, fun, and relatable so it can actually serve |
| 0:56.1 | your needs. So I feel the biggest part of the spiritual journey is the journey into the heart, |
| 1:01.7 | the journey into the shadows, the journey into the unknown, which is where all the good shit is, |
| 1:06.6 | by the way. So my own journey, especially after my divorce several years ago, really took me |
| 1:12.7 | deep into the underworld. It made me understand who I was, how I was, my ancestral lineage, my |
| 1:19.3 | childhood, different limiting beliefs and blocks. And what was then the hardest thing that |
| 1:24.9 | ever happened to me ended up being the best thing that |
| 1:27.7 | ever happened to me and really led me even deeper on the path of weaving with, you know, |
| 1:33.8 | not being separated from but weaving with, which is what the word tantra really means. So I follow |
| 1:38.9 | a lot of different teachers and relationship polarity tantra and I came across this beautiful soul on Instagram maybe a year or a year and a half ago. And I absolutely loved his work. I was like sharing his videos with my friends. I'm like, the world needs more about like this. Yes. Share, sure, sure, put him on a billboard. And I ended up meeting him at the Mind Valley conference and I was like, yo, you need to come on the podcast. And so he's here to share with us today |
| 2:01.5 | all about the dark masculine. I know you might be thinking, what? Dark masculine sounds scary. |
| 2:07.6 | But we're going to get into that. We're going to get into polarity, relationships. I mean, |
| 2:12.6 | who knows? She's about to hit the fam right now. So without further ado, let's welcome. |
| 2:19.1 | Adiyami, he is a coach to the one percenters. He is someone who has really dove in deep, especially with plant medicine |
| 2:23.8 | work. He hails from Nigeria, which I really believe is like the motherland and heartbeat of |
| 2:28.3 | the earth right now, obviously, because I love the Afrobeats music and really just a deep |
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