Hello and welcome to the new Mindset Who-This podcast. My name is Case Kenny at

Case. Cany on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no-BS episodes

dedicated to helping you become the person you're meant to be leave

your comfort zone and live a purposeful and fulfilling life.

Let's go. Oh, All right. Welcome to episode 605. Hello my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset Who This as always.

Thank you so much for listening.

Thank you for supporting me.

And today I want to talk about the biggest pitfall when it comes to relationships,

dating, friendships, relationships with any kind.

And that is our inability to see the difference

between the idea of a person and the reality of that person. The difference between the idea of a person and the reality of them.

One we tend to focus on and the other we tend to ignore in favor of what we're focusing on which is potential, putting all of our eggs in the

potential basket of someone. That's the difference between who we want someone to be

and who they actually are. The question is, are they a partner or are they a problem?

I think that is the question we need to get really real about

and ask ourselves early and often,

are they a partner or are they a problem the biggest question we need to ask and we need to ask it honestly and from a

point of view that demands, like savage clarity.

Not what we want to see, not what we want to feel, but what we actually see,

what we actually feel.

Reality, not just potential.

And so for this episode, I want to get real specific.

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