6 Warnings No One Gives You About Changing Your Life
Soul Gum
by Victoria Hutchins
4.9 • 560 Ratings
🗓️ 16 March 2025
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
We romanticize big life changes—quitting the job, moving to the dream city, chasing the thing we’ve always wanted. But big changes have big side effects. And if you don’t see them coming, they might just send you running back to the life you were trying to leave behind. In this episode, we’re breaking down six warnings I wish someone had told me before I changed everything. If you’re craving a big shift, let’s make sure you’re ready for it.
EPISODE OUTLINE
00:00 Intro
01:45 Life update + tour!
05:52 6 warnings about changing your life
06:14 1. It will not automatically make you happy
07:44 Harvard happiness study
08:34 The hedonic treadmill
9:54 2. You will have an identity crisis
10:12 Ship of Theseus
11:40 3. You’ll probably feel stuck
12:04 Diamond Example
13:12 Change happens at tipping points
15:31 4. It never stops feeling vulnerable
15:55 Asch conformity study
17:18 The neuroscience of fear & hope
19:43 It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed
22:33 5. There’s no magic pill
24:32 6. You’ll feel torn between who you were and who you’re becoming
24:52 Janus, the Roman god of transitions
27:18 Lightning round recap
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| 0:00.0 | There are big side effects that come with drastically changing your life. |
| 0:05.5 | And if you're not ready for them, they might just send you running back to the life you were |
| 0:11.3 | running away from. Let's talk about it. |
| 0:16.1 | Sogum. Welcome back to SoulGum, the self-development podcast with philosophical, psychological, and literary flair. |
| 0:24.4 | I'm your host, Victoria Hutchins. My goal is to give your soul something to chew on. And today, we are talking about the warnings no one gives you about changing your life. |
| 0:39.4 | We've been talking a lot lately about making big changes, whether it's quitting a job, |
| 0:46.2 | moving to a new city, leaving a relationship, starting on some big dream. |
| 0:52.7 | And if you click this episode, maybe you are someone who is seeking big dream. And if you clicked this episode, |
| 0:54.6 | maybe you are someone who is seeking big change, |
| 0:58.5 | or you're preparing for a big change. |
| 1:01.7 | And that is beautiful, and it's brave. |
| 1:05.8 | And I want it for you. |
| 1:07.4 | I want it to be everything you hope it will be. |
| 1:14.0 | But I also want you to be prepared. |
| 1:21.1 | Because change, even when it's good change, change you've been craving and wishing for and working towards, big change has big side effects. And if you don't see them coming, they might make you think that you've |
| 1:30.1 | made the wrong choice. They might throw you off track. So in this episode, I'm going to talk about |
| 1:36.0 | six warnings. I wish someone had told me before I completely changed my life. |
| 1:44.9 | And that feels like a good segue to give y'all a little life update. |
| 1:48.6 | I normally don't do that, but I want to today because y'all make believe comes out in two days. |
| 1:56.5 | I can't believe it. |
| 1:58.1 | If you're new to SoulGum, MakeB Make Believe is my debut poetry collection. I left my |
| 2:03.4 | career as a corporate attorney about a year and a half ago to be a writer and a content creator |
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