Welcome to UnFuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism, and coaching to rewire your brain

and get what you want in life.

And now here's your host.

Harvard Law School grad, Feminist Rockstar, and Master Coach, Kara Loyenthyle.

Hello my chickens, how are you guys? I am so excited to do another listener

Q&A podcast and I want to tell you all you all send me such good questions and if I don't answer your question, I wish that I could get to it.

Just for this podcast, just like for this episode, I went through 20 pages single spaced people's questions.

So you know I have so many questions which I love, I love that you're engaging the work, it's just

not possible for me to answer all of them and I try to pick the ones that I think

have the most general applicability and will be relatable to the most people.

So if I don't answer your question it's not because there was

something wrong with it or I don't love you or I don't want you to get help. It's

just that I am only one person. If I answered every question then I would just do nothing but record podcast, but I have clients who need coaching and a cat who needs feeding and all sorts of things.

Okay, so the other thing is that there might be meowing tonight.

My cat is very vocal this evening.

I was just, I saw my brother over Thanksgiving

and we're talking about how, like like what if our pets are trying to

communicate with us and we're trying to communicate with them and like I'm

constantly saying to my cat like what what do you want like how can I help you why are you

yelling at me and like what if he's just saying to me, like, what do you want? Like, how can I help you? I don't understand you, right? Or what if like, he says I'm hungry and I'm like it's

raining right like what if we just can't communicate because we're just

speaking to totally different languages I kind of like that might be what's going on.

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