One of the most important things to realize is that people are observing our body language in our response.

So it's not just about the words that you're using to describe these events.

It's about showing that emotion in your face.

Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. Today, we have another episode of the

always much anticipated AOC toolbox. We're going to tell you what happens when you run out of things

in a conversation. What to do about it, how to make sure it never happens again, and how to be

interested to be interesting. Also, staying small, becoming vulnerable, creating rapport, and

surprise, surprise, some active listening skills to make sure that you never have this problem again.

So enjoy this episode of the AOC toolbox with AJ, Johnny, and myself here at the Art of Charm.

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So a lot of the notes that we get, a lot of email, and a lot of people of all ages often say that

they run out of things to say in conversation, and they can't keep conversations going, or they don't

know what to do after hello or after the introduction. And there's a lot of different

sort of ways people flag this problem or state this problem, but it all comes down to

what looks like running out of things to say or to talk about in conversation. And I know you

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