Hey, good morning. How you doing?

Good morning. I'm all right, thank you.

Excellent. Well, welcome to your call, and if you want to just jump in, I'm all years, how can I best help?

Yeah, so I will start by reading what I wrote.

Hey, Steph, I have been married to my wife for over a year and a half

and we have a nine month old child together.

My primary issue is near constant fantasies of being with other women and an overall feeling

of being unattached for my wife and child.

I mean, I love them. I also feel like I could take them or leave them.

Just to be clear I have taken zero steps towards any kind of cheating, no dating apps, no

sending messages to women or talking to other women, nothing of the sort. I do watch

pornography which I am ashamed of but I am unable to stop myself at this time.

My wife tolerates the pornography use but obviously not thrilled about it.

Our marriage has taken some hits this year.

I had a car wreck back in January of this year.

I've changed jobs three times in the last year and a half and our son was recently in the

hospital for a week two of which of those days was in the ICU. Yes my wife has threatened to leave me and take my child and part of me wants to tell her to just go ahead. She feels life with me is too unstable and I understand her reasoning.

I'm reaching out to open up my childhood experiences and see if I can free myself and become

the great husband and father.

I believe I am capable of. Thank you for your time, stuff. I mean I appreciate that that's very frank very honest very open and I'm sure we can do some good stuff with this topic. So just what happened with the car crash by the way?

Yeah so I was driving to work someone made a left turn right in front of me I couldn't stop and I slammed straight into their

passenger side. It was an adult a woman and a child in the car and the passenger side backseat unfortunately she was about 12

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