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Stefan Molyneux

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🗓️ 1 August 2024

⏱️ 111 minutes

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Summary

Join us in this episode as we delve into heartfelt conversations with callers navigating complex family dynamics and personal growth. One caller bravely discusses the liberation found in distancing from her family, while another seeks advice on severing ties with manipulative parents for their well-being. We explore the concept of inner parents and their influence on relationships, urging reflection and self-awareness for healthier connections. Empathy and guidance are offered to a caller struggling with forming relationships post-past experiences, emphasizing rational assessment and boundaries. Lastly, we discuss building healthy relationships based on honesty, mutual respect, and self-awareness, while addressing low self-esteem struggles and the importance of self-perception and secure relationships.

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0:00.0	I will be deferring from my family this weekend, which was last weekend.
0:05.3	My parents know I want time to heal and go no contact, however they think it's temporary.
0:11.4	I think the truth is that I want to immediately cut contact permanently once moved
0:15.8	so I know that out of my life forever. I'm not sure if this is very rush and
0:20.8	rational but if they were to die tomorrow, I would have no regrets alongside having had
0:25.8	no desire to spend time with them for a couple of years already, excluding obligation feelings
0:32.0	and using them for resources. I am not even sure if permanently defuing is the right thing to do. The people-pleasing
0:38.0	is the right thing to do. The people pleasing has improved a lot since we last spoke, however still significantly, really significantly affects me on a day-to-day basis.
0:49.6	For example, I keep choosing bad men and creeps.
0:54.4	Maybe creeps are wrong word, but I keep choosing bad men.
0:58.6	And I've had dishonest friendships and a relationship
1:01.8	in which I people pleased and was a voluntary in bracket slave like as talked about in real-time relationships.
1:10.0	Now I only won honest friendships and once I've healed more which is hopefully not long now,
1:15.9	meet a husband and build a family but that feels like a world's away. I don't know what it would feel like to even just be happy and just have a happy relationship.
1:26.8	I have no idea what that would look like.
1:28.5	Right, right, right.
1:34.0	And okay, I'm sure that there's more that you want to add, so I can hear.
1:38.0	And if you could just, just a minor technical thing, if you could back off from the mic a little bit I'm getting some breath noises.
1:43.6	No no problem. Yeah so I'm sure there's more do you want to add and I'm all ears.
1:49.2	Yeah, okay. So regarding men, I've been, I've spoken to a few men, so I had a relationship from December to July last year and it was a completely dishonest relationship.
2:08.8	He was less intelligent than me, still intelligent and it was sort of like a safe haven I was with him for the sake of being
2:16.3	with someone so I was using him I then broke up with him because I realize oh my gosh we have nothing in common there's no deep conversations
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