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New Mindset, Who Dis?

550 - Stop comparing yourself (the reality of "selective envy")

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Motivation, Selfhelp, Mindset, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Wellness, Relationships, Mental Health, Inspiration, Personaldevelopment, Society & Culture

4.96K Ratings

🗓️ 30 November 2023

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I talk about the illogical reality of comparing your life's entirety to someone else's highlight reel. I talk about how to take back your power in the face of "selective envy." My NEW journal, "The BOLD Journal" is available now on Amazon! Instagram: @case.kenny

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the new Mindset Who-This podcast. My name is

0:05.2

Kenny at case dot kenny on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I

0:09.8

create short no-BS episodes dedicated to helping you become the person you're meant to be

0:15.1

leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and fulfilling life let's go. Oh, All right. Welcome to episode 550. Hello my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who this as always

0:55.3

thank you so much for listening thank you for supporting me and today something that has

0:59.6

really helped me when it comes to comparing myself to other people and I talk about this topic a lot

1:07.1

because really amidst all the things in life that threaten our our happiness

1:17.3

comparing jealousy and threaten our happiness, comparing, jealousy, envy, however you want to dress it up, this is the one that I've found pops up the most. And you probably agree, it's the one that pulls us down the most. It surrounds us the most. Social

1:26.2

media, family, friends, you name it. Comparing ourselves to other people. But the good news is, relative

1:32.4

to all of the things that happen to us in life that we cannot

1:36.7

control, someone ghosting you a frustrating boss, a health scare, whatever it is, comparing

1:42.0

yourself to other people in a negative draining way,

1:45.7

that's something we can control.

1:47.8

And for me personally, I've made it my mission

1:51.2

in my personal life, in my inner life, to be completely at peace with myself

1:56.7

amidst all the people who are doing better than me, making bigger moves than me,

2:01.6

who have more money than me, who are better looking than me, who have more clout than me, who have more, whatever.

2:09.0

I refuse. I absolutely refuse to be compared to compare myself to other people in a way that results in me losing that piece.

2:19.2

I simply refuse to do that any longer.

2:21.8

I've refused to do it because I know I'm doing the best I can.

2:25.2

I'm proud of myself as I do. I know that I'm committed to a path of growth. I trust the timing of my life.

2:31.6

And I'm not going to let a perpetual cycle of comparison

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