Hello, multiamery folks and friends. Let's go to Spain together. That's right, Orit Krug and I are hosting

a somatic retreat, especially for polyamorous folks that's going to be in beautiful northern Spain

from September 22nd to the 25th, 2025. We're going to be spending four days together in a beautiful

natural setting, and Orit and I are going to guide you through somatic practices that can help shift long-held patterns and help you develop some powerful tools for navigating non-monogamy with more ease and confidence.

We handle all the details so that you can be fully present. Your accommodations are taken care of. You don't have to clean or cook. All your meals are taken care of. We really want people to feel as cared for as possible. You're welcome to come solo or to bring a partner or to bring all of your partners. Everybody is welcome. We also offer sliding scale pricing, and if

cost is a concern for you, please don't let that stop you from applying. We're happy to explore

options that work for you and for your financial situation. So we already have people signing up

for this one, which is nuts. We do have limited spots. So if you're interested, go to

multi-amory.com slash retreat. To apply today, mention the Multiamary podcast when you apply. Again,

that's multi-amry.com slash retreat. And I hope that I can see you in Spain.

I do think that something that's easier said than done is do what you can to keep your

own side of the street clean, meaning like Dedeker was saying, regulating yourself, making

sure that you're not the one who's jumping to defensiveness and argumentativeness, and kind of

thinking beforehand about, is this a fight

that I need to fight, right? Like if these parents have some beliefs that I don't agree with,

is that a fight that I need to fight? Because you're not probably going to be the person who

changes their mind. Definitely not at this first meeting. Maybe over the next several years,

you might slowly change their mind just by existing

and being different than what they thought you would be.

But like, just go in knowing like the point of this is not to convince them.

The point is not to save the world by changing these people's minds.

Welcome to the Multi-Amory Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm Dedeker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you, and we're here

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